Someone wrote me today, "I always figured that if you were a guy you'd be like Dulli." That would be Greg Dulli.
Interesting. Maybe when I was a smoker. He smokes as artfully as I did. And there is an art to smoking like that. Ask any of the 10's of people who picked up the habit from watching me.
Monday, October 16, 2006
Saturday, October 14, 2006
Here's a textbook case illustrating why it's critical for parents to keep an eye (not sensor, be aware!) of their kids' presence on online. A 14-year-old honestly may not be aware that voicing a physical threat against the President - even though it may seem like semantics to the kid - is very serious federal offense. Parents, on the other hand, should know this. And I think that parents should be involved enough with their kids to catch something like this and correct it before it harms their child. I know parents can't be everywhere at once, but as a parent, it's your job to do the best you can to protect your child and sometimes that means getting into their business, e.g. MySpace page. Kids, if you want privacy, write in a journal on paper. That's something parents shouldn't read. MySpace is public domain and should be treated as such.
This situation reminds me of when the movie "Kids" came out. I was in college then; I was that age when you are just in between that kid mentality and adulthood. That film was painful for me to watch because I was seeing it from both sides. What I left thinking from that movie theater was, "Where were their parents??
Parent-child relationships today and even for the Generation after me - I guess that's Gen Y - are very different from my generation's. My parents weren't Baby Boomers, they are older than that generation. They had no interest in trying to be friends with me and my brother; they clearly understand that their role in my life was defined as "Parent" and that didn't mean they felt any need whatsoever to pander to my needs. The new model for parenting seems to be that parents are cool and hip and down with their kids. I think that's both good and bad. But the best aspect to how my parents' generation approached parenting - as "Parents" - meant that they set the rules, they were in charge and I'll tell you, because of that, they protected me from a heck of a lot of harm.
As the world changes with this social revolution, I don't envy the job of parents out there. You have a heck of lot of work cut out for you in raising today's kids. You don't just need to make sure that your kids aren't drinking and driving or doing drugs or hanging out with the wrong crowd at school, you have that whole online element to patrol. Making sure that your kids aren't just not befriending strangers on their way home from school but also online.
It's a lot of work, but it can be done. It must be done, for the sake of keeping children safe.
This situation reminds me of when the movie "Kids" came out. I was in college then; I was that age when you are just in between that kid mentality and adulthood. That film was painful for me to watch because I was seeing it from both sides. What I left thinking from that movie theater was, "Where were their parents??
Parent-child relationships today and even for the Generation after me - I guess that's Gen Y - are very different from my generation's. My parents weren't Baby Boomers, they are older than that generation. They had no interest in trying to be friends with me and my brother; they clearly understand that their role in my life was defined as "Parent" and that didn't mean they felt any need whatsoever to pander to my needs. The new model for parenting seems to be that parents are cool and hip and down with their kids. I think that's both good and bad. But the best aspect to how my parents' generation approached parenting - as "Parents" - meant that they set the rules, they were in charge and I'll tell you, because of that, they protected me from a heck of a lot of harm.
As the world changes with this social revolution, I don't envy the job of parents out there. You have a heck of lot of work cut out for you in raising today's kids. You don't just need to make sure that your kids aren't drinking and driving or doing drugs or hanging out with the wrong crowd at school, you have that whole online element to patrol. Making sure that your kids aren't just not befriending strangers on their way home from school but also online.
It's a lot of work, but it can be done. It must be done, for the sake of keeping children safe.
Wednesday, October 11, 2006
The only thing I can think of right now is it would certainly be nice to think of that Field of Dreams now in pitching rotation with Cory.
My heart goes out to his friends and family, as well as his passengers'. Also not to be forgotten, are those in the area who were injured, displaced or may have lost irreplacable sentimental property.
My heart goes out to his friends and family, as well as his passengers'. Also not to be forgotten, are those in the area who were injured, displaced or may have lost irreplacable sentimental property.
Tuesday, October 10, 2006
The Illedelph reports that the eagerly awaited Philly wifi is coming and is available in my neighborhood, Northern Liberties.
But, since God clearly hates me, it's no dice for the kid here. Bitter much?
In other news, Philebrity's Weekender is just days away. Get your tix ASAP. I just bought mine.
But, since God clearly hates me, it's no dice for the kid here. Bitter much?
In other news, Philebrity's Weekender is just days away. Get your tix ASAP. I just bought mine.
Monday, October 09, 2006
This photo (see the last shot) captures the emotion of yesterday in Philadelphia better than any description I could provide. It was a suspense-filled game and I'm proud to report that our fans, often rebuked and vilified in the press, showed that we can behave even under the most competitive of circumstances.
I'm going to be honest. Yesterday's win meant more to many of us "Iggles" fans than the NFC championship wins. We hate us some Cowboys and more than that, we loathe T.O. Whipping their Cowboy hides on our home field felt like Christmas.
I'm going to marinate in this win for a while.
I'm going to be honest. Yesterday's win meant more to many of us "Iggles" fans than the NFC championship wins. We hate us some Cowboys and more than that, we loathe T.O. Whipping their Cowboy hides on our home field felt like Christmas.
I'm going to marinate in this win for a while.
Wednesday, October 04, 2006
So I hit the ground running at work. On my first day, I had the pleasure of making the acquaintance of my new neighbor and one of Philly's blogging elite, Philebrity.
Yesterday, I had the distinct honor of meeting The Honorable Mayor Street, who graciously welcomed me to the City of Philadelphia. And I also met a new cool friend, Kendra.
It's only been a few days here and it's safe for me to say that I've fallen head over heels in love with Philadelphia and the feeling is mutual, since this is "the city that loves you back."
I'm a little bit afraid for my NYC friends, when they come to visit. I have a strong suspicion we're going to see a lot of them moving camp here soon.
Philly rocks it. With Whiz and without;)
Yesterday, I had the distinct honor of meeting The Honorable Mayor Street, who graciously welcomed me to the City of Philadelphia. And I also met a new cool friend, Kendra.
It's only been a few days here and it's safe for me to say that I've fallen head over heels in love with Philadelphia and the feeling is mutual, since this is "the city that loves you back."
I'm a little bit afraid for my NYC friends, when they come to visit. I have a strong suspicion we're going to see a lot of them moving camp here soon.
Philly rocks it. With Whiz and without;)
Tuesday, October 03, 2006
Well, I'm here and it's fantastic. It's been a whirlwind ride, moving out of NYC and into Philly in one day and having a weekend to settle and start a new job on Monday (yesterday).
No cable yet, so updates will be sporadic when I get a chance at work. More to come soon.
No cable yet, so updates will be sporadic when I get a chance at work. More to come soon.
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